What to expect when dating a military man
Not seeing him for a long period of time, dealing with an inconsistent schedule and taking the relationship day-by-day can be exhausting. Flowers, letters, books and other thoughtful goodies remind me of him while he's gone. You keep the relationship going by creating new ideas to do together.
But that's what makes the relationship so spontaneous: never knowing what's going to happen. It goes both ways; he'll also be expecting care packages. Figuring out new adventures, travels, restaurants to dine at, museums to explore, hiking trails to go to, movies to watch on Netflix and which city to take a road trip to is what keeps the relationship flowing.
Even if you marry your soldier and move with him as he relocates around the world, separations are an inevitable part of Army life.
Work schedules and leave time are always at the discretion of his superiors and are subject to change at any time.
Relocation and deployment occur with little warning.
In addition, your man is surrounded by the Army way of life.
Before moving forward in your relationship, learn the Soldier’s Code, the Army Values and the daily life of a soldier.
And when you do get a call from him, it is only for 10 minutes at most. I never thought I'd be in a long-distance military relationship. Surprise gifts in the mail are very exciting, especially when it is unexpected. I am not materialistic; it is the little things that count.